Lady Lubyanka

Introduction To The Prostate Milking Post

Wednesday, 16 April, 2008 · 1 Comment

Welcome to my resource on prostate milking.

Prostate milking” is a term commonly used to refer to the erotic, recreational (i.e. not for medical purposes), non-orgasmic variant of prostate massage, especially between people of the BDSM-ish persuasion who incorporate elements of orgasm control and/or chastity into their partnerships.

Strong pulsating muscle contractions during ejaculation are a primary source of male pleasure during orgasm. Using prostate massage to drain the buildup of fluids from his prostate, but without triggering forceful orgasmic muscle contractions, is what I call “prostate milking”, or simply “milking”.
 
 
Just in case you were wondering, the milking I’m talking about has nothing to do with either of these:
 
Cow and Milk Bottle

        Cow                                                                         Milk Bottle

Copyright © 1998 – 2008, FreeFoto LLC.
 
 

A Slight But Necessary Disclaimage

 
For my own personal relaxedness and peace-of-mindness, I need to refer you to my blog disclaimageness, which I’d like you to have a look through before proceeding further.

Don’t worry, it’s really short, I swear.     :)

Please understand that reading on will be your acceptance of the few conditionages listed there.

Ok, phew, thank you, I feel better now.     :)
 
 

Objectives – What Am I Doing Here?

 
I thought that an attractively packaged, readable, comprehensive, and accurate manual on prostate milking, written from the perspective of power exchange relationships, has been well overdue for some time.

So, I assembled as much relevant information as possible about prostate milking and put it all in the one place, entirely for the benefit of dominants like me who wish to stylishly     stomp our control all over     Milk     our owned property we can do whatever we like with     the males who have consented to submit to us.

Yummy. :)

If I’d had any idea how long this was going to take, and how much effort it would be, and just how much material I was going to end up with, I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t have bothered.

But it did take that long, and that much effort, and I did end up with that much material, and I did end up bothering, but it’s too late to stop now, and anyhow I’m almost done. :)

Anybody who wishes to validate my efforts in the comments is very welcome to do so.     :)     Any information on stuff I might have got wrong or incomplete is also very welcome.
 
 
List Of Objectives
 
I didn’t think what I was looking for was so unusual or rare. I didn’t think the features I was seeking were so unreasonable.

I was originally looking for a prostate milking resource, fully equipped with these features:

  • Available to anybody who can use a search engine
  • Free of charge to anybody who can access the internet
  • Appropriately and generally BDSM focused
  • Packed to the gills with comprehensive, specific, detailed, accurate, verifiable and diverse information, supported by resources such as illustrations, diagrams, and external links
  • Accessible to any interested party without any need for specialist education

    (unless you count “knowing how to read” or “knowing how to use a web browser” as specialist education)

 
And, after some grumbling to myself, and sighing, I resigned myself and decided – if this situation was going to be addressed anytime soon in the way that I wanted, it might as well be by me.

At least that way I knew it would have everything I needed in it. :)
 
 

Overview Of All The Material

 
In this set of posts and pages you will find pretty much every scrap of information I could find which related to milking. Hopefully by the end of it you’ll have been through and understood all the weighty sections covering the detailed minutiae of everything.

For health and safety reasons, I think that you’ll want to go through all of it before trying out milking on your submissive in person.
 
 
Index Of The Material
 

 
That last one is a really juicy section you can sink your teeth into (just like a gooey bun), to learn exactly how to identify and access a part of your submissive’s unconscious mind, how to make that part of his mind your own, and how to use it to improve his service to you, and your ownership of him.

It’s the really cool part about how to get even more out of your owned submissive, in ways which neither of you might not have known were possible, and in ways which will benefit both of you.
 
 
Bonus Extra Features
 

  • You will get to meet Eric (who gets very excited when he looks at glossy linoleum catalogues), and his sperm (all of whom are called Colin);
  • There are descriptions of how any Eric can be safely trained to have orgasm free emissions, whilst Colin the sperm and the rest of his pals in the seminal fluid to wave bye bye to Eric’s reproductive system;

    (I’ll be coming back to Eric and Colin later on.   :) )

  • You get a nice handy hugely concised summary of the male reproductive system and mechanisms, which I was fabulous enough to add   (yay me!!);
  • Your submissive gets his own personal private guide to exploring his own prostate so he can feel more comfortable about being milked if he hasn’t ever met his prostate before;
  • If he’s still a bit lost, your submissive can also enjoy a man’s perspective on successfully finding his own prostate;
  • You get a special bonus extra rantfest out-takes page, for all those rants I couldn’t stop having, but couldn’t legitimately include in the resource, yet liked them enough so I couldn’t bear to throw them away;
  • And you get a ginormous bibliofest references page, which thanks everybody whose pages I referenced, and which includes, at no extra charge, coffee and a bun.   :D

 
Phew! That’s nearly more extras than there is stuff to be extra about, actually.
 
 

Some Stuff To Note

 
By the end of all this, you’ll hopefully be able to effectively take control of your submissive’s orgasmic pleasure, whilst at the same time, maintain the health of his prostate (or at least have you both thinking that you are, which is almost the same thing :) ).
 
For my own convenience, I will be assuming that dominant women are controlling the orgasms of their consenting male submissives. However, this guide will work equally well for dominant men who wish to control the orgasms of their consenting male submissives.
 
So please be nice to me, even if you are a dominant male who objects to my use of feminine pronouns when referring to the dominant. It’s not like there’s nothing out there specificaly designed to cater for dominant men. You have been warned, I mean, advised. :)
 
 

If You Are A Submissive, You May Want To Stop Reading Now

 
There is no deeply compelling reason why any submissive should look away at this point.

However, I think there might be something to be said for keeping yourself free of knowing the precise methods which are going to be used on you.

I’m sure the methods will work well even if you do not look away. Training works, even on people who know it’s happening.

On the other hand, you might possibly help your dominant achieve a better result if you avoid knowing exactly what is part of the process and what is not.

So, my advice is, read on if you want to, there’s no real harm in it. But it might possibly all work better for you and your dominant if you stopped reading now.

And that’s really all I have to say about that. :)
 
 

 

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