Category Archives: Safety

Responsibility Expoundathon

  I’ve had quite a few problems with people who persistently abdicate and/or misattribute responsibility.   Mostly due to these problems, I’ve formulated a certain view of human responsibility. I’ve spend a super goodly amount of time considering this view, … Continue reading

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Polyamory Compatibility Questionnaire

  This set of questions was created by and for polyamorous people as a self-exploration and partnership compatibility guide.   The point of the questionnaire is to help polyamorous people to: establish potential compatibility with new partners narrow down and … Continue reading

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Wearing Purple

  On 20 October, I wore purple. Now, I’m sure all you smart people have already noticed that I don’t normally share my day-to-day outfit colour choices with you.   So why this time? Well, 20 October was a special … Continue reading

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  On one day last weekend I more or less hid shivering in a bucket for about four hours.   But in the end all my shivery hidey efforts were for nothing since I was discovered just about as soon … Continue reading

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Advisory For Women – Blue Ireland Magazine

  Image © 2010   I was recently contacted by somebody called Andrew Booth from a not-yet-published magazine called  Blue Ireland.   He said he was  “coordinating the journalistic side of the magazine”  and requested an interview with me … Continue reading

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Resumption Of Some Normalness

  Does anybody here remember that I had a life with Normal Crap in it before all this Recent Crap started?   Well, here’s some Normal Crapness for you to snack on.   :) For a long time there were … Continue reading

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BDSM Community Leaders Busted In Fuckwit Ring

Irish BDSM Community Acknowledge Responsibility by Lady Lubyanka Blog Correspondent         DUBLIN   –   The leaders of Ireland’s most populated BDSM community got their arses busted good and proper last night in a raid on a … Continue reading

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