Category Archives: Power Exchange

Punishing And Punishments

  I note with some amazement that apparently I have never written in this blog about my punishment policy.   This policy is at the forefront of my mind lots and lots, so I’m genuinely surprised to notice that of … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, Dominance, Domination, Human Beingness 101, Kink, Me Me Me Me Me, Power Exchange, Psychology, Respect, submission | 4 Comments

‘Submission Is A Gift’ – The Rant

  I appreciate that anybody who suffers from self-esteem issues can choose something about themselves which is outside their jurisdiction  (such as sexual orientation or BDSM preferences)  and big it up all nice and juicy so they can feel better. … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, definition, Dominance, fuckwitism, One True Way, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, submission | 10 Comments

Bigging Up The Aeropress

  It’s time to talk coffee.   This post is coffee-centric.   More particularly, I would like to focus on one specific coffee gadget.   And even more particularly than that, I want to focus on the Aeropress. In addition … Continue reading

Posted in Droolworthy Stuff, Food, Me Me Me Me Me, Power Exchange, serf | 8 Comments

Wannabe – The Rant

  This post is about what I think of people who use the term wannabe about others in a BDSM social context.   Ok, actually?   This is a Rant.   Just so you know.   Right, moving swiftly rantwards… … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, definition, exclusion, fuckwit, fuckwitism, fuckwits, fuckwittedness, Human Beingness 101, Hypocrism, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, Respect | 2 Comments

Wannabe (BDSM)

  And now…   wan•na•be   |ˈwänəbē; ˈwô-| * noun   informal derogatory   (pl. -s) variants   wan•na  be,   wan•na – be   In BDSM  –  An epithet used by  One True Way  BDSM practitioners to denigrate and exclude other BDSM … Continue reading

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A Moment Of Beginningness

  After reading this post by Unspeakable Axe, I was reminded of this story, which I haven’t yet mentioned here. And so, the mentionage.   :)     Beginningness   Two weeks after I first realised I was a dominant, … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Dominance, Droolworthy Stuff, FemDom, FemDomme, inclusion, Me Me Me Me Me, Power Exchange, Psychology, Validation | 3 Comments

The Winding Stair Foodal Reviewfest

  In keeping with my recent foody theme, I thought I might as well tack on a review for a restaurant kvetch and I visited for the first time a few weeks ago.   We’d been passing The Winding Stair … Continue reading

Posted in Consent, Droolworthy Stuff, Dublin, Eating, exclusion, Food, fuckwits, fuckwittedness, Human Beingness 101, Me Me Me Me Me, noodging, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rantlet, Respect, Restaurants, serf | 3 Comments