Category Archives: BDSM

Head In The Clouds

  I notice that I’ve never done a film review on this blog before.   I guess that’s kind of strange because even though I dislike going to the cinema  (the volume is way too loud and the bright lights … Continue reading

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Site Update and Dublin Pride

  I’ve been doing a massive site-wide update so I probably won’t be posting much for a wee while.   Sometimes things might look a little broken before it’s done.   Hopefully when it’s all finished every link will be … Continue reading

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Super Deluxe Rant

  You know, I haven’t had a really good rantathon in quite awhile.   And guess what?   Here’s a brand spanking new one for your reading entertainment!   Spleen Productions Proudly Present: The  Super Deluxe Special Edition Rantfest with … Continue reading

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Chastity Poll Thingy

  Recently a thought occurred to me, and as a result I asked this question in a yahoo group focusing on male chastity:   From:   Lubyanka Subject:   Question for the men Date:   19 April 2010 18:03:51 GMT+01:00 … Continue reading

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Punishing And Punishments

  I note with some amazement that apparently I have never written in this blog about my punishment policy.   This policy is at the forefront of my mind lots and lots, so I’m genuinely surprised to notice that of … Continue reading

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‘Submission Is A Gift’ – The Rant

  I appreciate that anybody who suffers from self-esteem issues can choose something about themselves which is outside their jurisdiction  (such as sexual orientation or BDSM preferences)  and big it up all nice and juicy so they can feel better. … Continue reading

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‘Submission Is A Gift’ – The Definition

  submission is a gift   | səb•ˈmɪʃ•ən ɪz ə ˈgɪft |   idiom   A phrase in BDSM expressing support for the following beliefs: Fulfilling negotiated and agreed relationship arrangements is an extra bonus feature Consensual bottoming in relationships … Continue reading

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