Category Archives: submissive

From Cane To Pain – Emailery Out-Takes

  These messages, posted to a local mailing list, reveal the story of some canes being conceived, made, used, and something about how people were involved in the project. I thought they were quite amuseworthy as well as interesting in … Continue reading

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Caney Reviewfest – The Irvings

  Okay, the story so far began with My Story Of Caneness, and how it all got started. Then it continued with pictures and descriptions of the Caney Droolfest. And now, I hereby welcome you and present the first ever… … Continue reading

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Caney Droolfest

  Having taken you through the beginning of My Story Of Caneness, I now welcome you to the Caney Droolfest. After receiving CCC’s caney largesse, I indulged in droolfestness over the oooh-and-aaah-worthy goodies, and by this point you may possibly … Continue reading

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The Fruit Will Prevail

  Whilst we’re in the neighbourhood of banana topics, I thought I’d share this fun t-shirt thingy I got last year:       And by the way, kvetch has a matching one.   It says:   bananaslut   He … Continue reading

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Ring Bell For Service (and comfort)

  For quite some time, kvetch had been noodging me to get a bell, so I can ring for him when I want him.   I’d been resisting, partly because I thought I’d get tired of hearing the bell sound … Continue reading

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Identifying the Worthless Worm

I know, this topic is old, just like the last one, and the one before. But still, I have stuff to say about it. And it’s my blog, so I can say what I like, even if it has mould … Continue reading

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Identifying The “Do Me!!!” Practitioner

  I think we’ve all probably encountered the  do me!!!  practitioner in multitudinous areas of our lives.   I personally first encountered the name of the species in descriptions of the  do me!!!  submissive in the context of the BDSM … Continue reading

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