Category Archives: Validation

Final Frivolous Irrelevance for 2010

  For my last post of 2010, I am pleased to present some frivolous irrelevance. You may have noticed that sometimes in my posts I use images from the public domain or with Creative Commons licenses.   I usually find … Continue reading

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Polyamory Compatibility Questionnaire

  This set of questions was created by and for polyamorous people as a self-exploration and partnership compatibility guide.   The point of the questionnaire is to help polyamorous people to: establish potential compatibility with new partners narrow down and … Continue reading

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Head In The Clouds

  I notice that I’ve never done a film review on this blog before.   I guess that’s kind of strange because even though I dislike going to the cinema  (the volume is way too loud and the bright lights … Continue reading

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Wearing Purple

  On 20 October, I wore purple. Now, I’m sure all you smart people have already noticed that I don’t normally share my day-to-day outfit colour choices with you.   So why this time? Well, 20 October was a special … Continue reading

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Hello Forum Readers!

  Ok, I know I’ve just posted saying I’m away again, but I do like my visitor stats, and I just got some new ones to share, yay!   :) Over the last while I’ve been getting quite a few … Continue reading

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Three Hundred Thousand

  Last weekend my hit counter rolled over 300,000. I just wanted to take a moment in the midst of my massive site-wide overhaul to thank you all for visiting. Even though I don’t post very often and even though … Continue reading

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The Compliment Minefield

  Today’s post is mostly about my thoughts on compliments, with a side order of the musical delights of pianist Eamonn Monahan. I mentioned in my recent self-outing post that I spent the weekend of May 1st at the Berkeley … Continue reading

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