Category Archives: Spokesmodel

Wearing Purple

  On 20 October, I wore purple. Now, I’m sure all you smart people have already noticed that I don’t normally share my day-to-day outfit colour choices with you.   So why this time? Well, 20 October was a special … Continue reading

Posted in Consent, definition, exclusion, Human Beingness 101, Psychology, Rantlet, Respect, Safety, Spokesmodel, Validation | 1 Comment

What It Takes To Get A Trim Around Here

  I never before thought of my strapon as something to use to get my hair cut.   But I’m beginning to consider trying it out. But first, a bit of background.     Wooed By The Dark Side   … Continue reading

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The Ensuing PVC Corsetness

  Ok, having done all that cogitation and preparation and orderingness and stuff, this is the bit where I enjoy the actual PVC corsetness.   :)     PVC Corset Arrivalness   On arrival, I unpacked the corset, which came … Continue reading

Posted in corset, Droolworthy Stuff, Skin, Spokesmodel, This should've been a whole lot rantier | 4 Comments

PVC Cogitations And Impending Corsetness

  Recently, on a mailing list I subscribe to, somebody made a tongue-in-cheek observation about PVC and rubber.   Essentially they joked that PVC is just a cheat for those who won’t commit to the hard-to-put-on sweaty lubefest that is … Continue reading

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The Maker And Designer Of My Electric Violin: Tucker Barrett

Or: How That Gorgeous Piece Of Violinly Loveliness Came To Feature In The Top Left Corner Of My Blog     Due to the sporadic nature of my web reading and news following, it would appear that it took a … Continue reading

Posted in Audio, Droolworthy Stuff, Dublin, inclusion, Interesting musical instruments, Me Me Me Me Me, Music, Music making, Music Video, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Respect, Spokesmodel, worship | 12 Comments

Therapeutic Flogging

or: Flogging With A Dead Horse   I just got back from a fabulously long, debauched weekend at Bicon. It was my first experience of this event, and I feel very confident it won’t be the last. There is so … Continue reading

Posted in Audio, BDSM, Consent, Dominance, Domination, Dominatrix, Eating, FemDom, FemDomme, Flogging, Food, Interesting musical instruments, leather, leg, Me Me Me Me Me, Music, Music making, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Power Exchange, Psychology, Respect, Sex Toys, slave, Spokesmodel, sub, submission, submissive | 2 Comments

Hey, Who Stole My Consent, And What’s Up With That Anyway?

  This post is about consent, and about what I’m going to call “mainstream dominant woman fantasy material”.   But first……     Spokesmodel Digression Before I Even Get Started   I was going to point alluringly and scintillatingly to … Continue reading

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