Category Archives: spanking

From Cane To Pain – Emailery Out-Takes

  These messages, posted to a local mailing list, reveal the story of some canes being conceived, made, used, and something about how people were involved in the project. I thought they were quite amuseworthy as well as interesting in … Continue reading

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Caney Reviewfest – The Irvings

  Okay, the story so far began with My Story Of Caneness, and how it all got started. Then it continued with pictures and descriptions of the Caney Droolfest. And now, I hereby welcome you and present the first ever… … Continue reading

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Caney Droolfest

  Having taken you through the beginning of My Story Of Caneness, I now welcome you to the Caney Droolfest. After receiving CCC’s caney largesse, I indulged in droolfestness over the oooh-and-aaah-worthy goodies, and by this point you may possibly … Continue reading

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BDSM Night 2 – Playing With Kvetch

In BDSM Night 1 – December 2007, I cover the first part of this evening. This is the second part:     Swooshing Along.   So, with my skirt swooshing with every step, we went along to the event. Gaining … Continue reading

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My First Encounter With Subspace

  Preamble The First This is the first of three posts about subspace. In this post I describe the overwhelmingly intense experience I had the first time I encountered subspace. My next post covers my general observations of and conclusions … Continue reading

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Separation Anxiety

  An interesting thing happened a few weeks back  (well obviously  I  think it’s interesting). I’d been back at home, away from my serf for about a month  (whom I refer to online as kvetch, as he is a champion … Continue reading

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