Category Archives: Rantfest

BDSM Dating – The Rant

  When re-creating my BDSM dating guide I was primarily aiming to help men who genuinely seek longer-term social partnerships with women.   And why did I create that guide?   Because my own most disagreeable dating experiences showed me … Continue reading

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Super Deluxe Rant

  You know, I haven’t had a really good rantathon in quite awhile.   And guess what?   Here’s a brand spanking new one for your reading entertainment!   Spleen Productions Proudly Present: The  Super Deluxe Special Edition Rantfest with … Continue reading

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‘Submission Is A Gift’ – The Rant

  I appreciate that anybody who suffers from self-esteem issues can choose something about themselves which is outside their jurisdiction  (such as sexual orientation or BDSM preferences)  and big it up all nice and juicy so they can feel better. … Continue reading

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Wannabe – The Rant

  This post is about what I think of people who use the term wannabe about others in a BDSM social context.   Ok, actually?   This is a Rant.   Just so you know.   Right, moving swiftly rantwards… … Continue reading

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Spiral And Tiger – Deleted Scenes

  And again, with the verbosity and having to cut stuff out which I couldn’t bear to throw away. So here you go.   :)   But First, Some Packaging Strangeness I thought the packaging was worth mentioning, because there … Continue reading

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This Is You, Yes YOU.

Or   –   Things I Am Fucking Sick And Tired Of And Why The Fuck Has Nobody Else Noticed This??     Hopefully the more astute readers amongst you will have noticed my early use of the word  “fuck“. … Continue reading

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Open Letter To “Cool & Groovy Toy Company Ltd” Regarding Their Bluethooth Vibrator “The Toy”

  To: Cool & Groovy Toy Company Ltd From: Lubyanka Subject: Open letter about anal placement of The Toy and other issues. Date: Monday, 17 September 2007 09:09:02 IST   Hello there, I very much like the idea of your … Continue reading

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