Category Archives: Rant

BDSM Dating – The Rant

  When re-creating my BDSM dating guide I was primarily aiming to help men who genuinely seek longer-term social partnerships with women.   And why did I create that guide?   Because my own most disagreeable dating experiences showed me … Continue reading

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Super Deluxe Rant

  You know, I haven’t had a really good rantathon in quite awhile.   And guess what?   Here’s a brand spanking new one for your reading entertainment!   Spleen Productions Proudly Present: The  Super Deluxe Special Edition Rantfest with … Continue reading

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‘Submission Is A Gift’ – The Rant

  I appreciate that anybody who suffers from self-esteem issues can choose something about themselves which is outside their jurisdiction  (such as sexual orientation or BDSM preferences)  and big it up all nice and juicy so they can feel better. … Continue reading

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Rant – “Giving Back” To The Community

  This is a rant.   I think I’m well overdue for one, considering recent events. So if you don’t enjoy rants, you might want to skip this post. Now that you have been duly advised, moving swiftly rantwards…   … Continue reading

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Rant – Accessibility And Exclusion

  ‘The social exclusion trap‘ From the cover of the August 2005 issue of Legal Action 7 © Legal Action Group, 2008     In my local poly group, I have been having some recurring difficulties which have popped up … Continue reading

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Eager To Learn – The Rant

  Eager to learn is a phrase I come across a lot.   I don’t know if it similarly turns up as frequently in other places, but I do know that I often encounter it in kink circles.   And … Continue reading

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Wannabe – The Rant

  This post is about what I think of people who use the term wannabe about others in a BDSM social context.   Ok, actually?   This is a Rant.   Just so you know.   Right, moving swiftly rantwards… … Continue reading

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