Category Archives: nudging

Identifying “One True Way” Practitioners

This is old. I know this. This topic has been addressed in lots of ways by lots of different people. Maybe I don’t even have anything new to say about it. Nevertheless, I do have stuff to say about it, … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, definition, exclusion, fuckwits, Human Beingness 101, Hypocrism, nudging, Psychology, Respect, This should have been a rant but wasn't | 12 Comments

Some Stuff About My (slightly variable) Comment Policy

Or: A Note On Some Of The Comments Which Don’t Appear   I regard my blog as my personal safe space. I can say anything I like here, and I have absolute control over all published text which appears here. … Continue reading

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Please Or Be Pleased?

I was reading some posts in a femdom-themed yahoo group I’m in, and I noticed some things which came together in my mind, about submissive men who express desires to please their partner or dominant. The observations I refer to … Continue reading

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The Maker And Designer Of My Electric Violin: Tucker Barrett

Or: How That Gorgeous Piece Of Violinly Loveliness Came To Feature In The Top Left Corner Of My Blog     Due to the sporadic nature of my web reading and news following, it would appear that it took a … Continue reading

Posted in Audio, Droolworthy Stuff, Dublin, inclusion, Interesting musical instruments, Me Me Me Me Me, Music, Music making, Music Video, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Respect, Spokesmodel, worship | 12 Comments

Open Letter To “Cool & Groovy Toy Company Ltd” Regarding Their Bluethooth Vibrator “The Toy”

  To: Cool & Groovy Toy Company Ltd From: Lubyanka Subject: Open letter about anal placement of The Toy and other issues. Date: Monday, 17 September 2007 09:09:02 IST   Hello there, I very much like the idea of your … Continue reading

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My Dominant Isn’t Dominating Me Enough, Waah!!!

I’ve been hearing and reading quite a bit lately from and about submissives who say they don’t feel their dominant is controlling them enough, or dominating them enough. This would seem to be an incredibly common complaint amongst submissives. This … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, Dominance, Domination, Dominatrix, FemDom, FemDomme, fuckwits, Hypocrism, Mistress, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Pot Calling The Kettle Black, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, Respect, slave, sub, submission, submissive | 7 Comments

Stuff About Apologies

My sincere thanks for this great “Sorry” cartoon by Marcus from this post on his blog. :)   My Problems With Apologies I have a problem with people saying “Sorry”. When not used as an “excuse me”, but to express … Continue reading

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