Category Archives: nudge

Please Or Be Pleased?

I was reading some posts in a femdom-themed yahoo group I’m in, and I noticed some things which came together in my mind, about submissive men who express desires to please their partner or dominant. The observations I refer to … Continue reading

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The Maker And Designer Of My Electric Violin: Tucker Barrett

Or: How That Gorgeous Piece Of Violinly Loveliness Came To Feature In The Top Left Corner Of My Blog     Due to the sporadic nature of my web reading and news following, it would appear that it took a … Continue reading

Posted in Audio, Droolworthy Stuff, Dublin, inclusion, Interesting musical instruments, Me Me Me Me Me, Music, Music making, Music Video, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Respect, Spokesmodel, worship | 12 Comments

My Dominant Isn’t Dominating Me Enough, Waah!!!

I’ve been hearing and reading quite a bit lately from and about submissives who say they don’t feel their dominant is controlling them enough, or dominating them enough. This would seem to be an incredibly common complaint amongst submissives. This … Continue reading

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Stuff About Apologies

My sincere thanks for this great “Sorry” cartoon by Marcus from this post on his blog. :)   My Problems With Apologies I have a problem with people saying “Sorry”. When not used as an “excuse me”, but to express … Continue reading

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Therapeutic Flogging

or: Flogging With A Dead Horse   I just got back from a fabulously long, debauched weekend at Bicon. It was my first experience of this event, and I feel very confident it won’t be the last. There is so … Continue reading

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Hypocrisy Part 2

Having been away at Bicon and elsewhere for the last couple of weeks or so (and having an absolutely amazing time, with a post about this in the works), I’ve got somewhat behind on the blog stuff. Having read over … Continue reading

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The Pot Calling The Kettle Black

or: A Big Fat Rant About People Doing Precisely What They Bitch About Other People Doing. And Utterly Failing To Notice.         Update – October 2008   This post was written at a time when a lot … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, Dominance, Domination, exclusion, FemDom, FemDomme, fuckwit, fuckwitism, fuckwits, fuckwittedness, Human Beingness 101, Hypocrism, inclusion, Me Me Me Me Me, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Pot Calling The Kettle Black, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, Respect, slave, submission, submissive, This should've been a whole lot rantier | 29 Comments