Category Archives: noodge

Rule – Analogue In Vanilla

  Whenever I’m feeling uncomfortable about people and their behaviour in a BDSM, polyamorous, or any other socially diverse context  (which unfortunately is pretty often),  I prefer to make a distinction between discomfort which relates to my own issues, and … Continue reading

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Klezmorim In Da House!

    Last week, on my way in to playing my customary Wednesday night in the Cobblestone, I noticed this flyer up on the door advertising that The North Strand Klezmer Band were to be playing there in two days’ … Continue reading

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Validation

    Or, let’s play: Spot The Hypocrism.   Validation is one of those things that people require and demand from others, and which they often never think of offering to others.   Spot the hypocrism.     This is … Continue reading

Posted in Consent, exclusion, fuckwits, Human Beingness 101, Hypocrism, inclusion, Me Me Me Me Me, noodge, noodging, Pot Calling The Kettle Black, Psychology, Respect | 29 Comments

Please Or Be Pleased?

I was reading some posts in a femdom-themed yahoo group I’m in, and I noticed some things which came together in my mind, about submissive men who express desires to please their partner or dominant. The observations I refer to … Continue reading

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BDSM Night 3 – Playing With Somebody New

In BDSM Night 1 – December 2007, I cover the beginning of this evening. In BDSM Night 2 – Playing With Kvetch, I cover the second part of the event. This is the third part:     The Next Victim, … Continue reading

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The Maker And Designer Of My Electric Violin: Tucker Barrett

Or: How That Gorgeous Piece Of Violinly Loveliness Came To Feature In The Top Left Corner Of My Blog     Due to the sporadic nature of my web reading and news following, it would appear that it took a … Continue reading

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My Dominant Isn’t Dominating Me Enough, Waah!!!

I’ve been hearing and reading quite a bit lately from and about submissives who say they don’t feel their dominant is controlling them enough, or dominating them enough. This would seem to be an incredibly common complaint amongst submissives. This … Continue reading

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