Category Archives: inclusion


  Last night for the first time in I-can’t-remember-how-long, I attended a social event in my local BDSM scene!   Excitement!   :) Some of you will already be aware of my experiences with the administrators of most of my … Continue reading

Posted in Dublin, inclusion, The Scene | 18 Comments

Final Frivolous Irrelevance for 2010

  For my last post of 2010, I am pleased to present some frivolous irrelevance. You may have noticed that sometimes in my posts I use images from the public domain or with Creative Commons licenses.   I usually find … Continue reading

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Responsibility Expoundathon

  I’ve had quite a few problems with people who persistently abdicate and/or misattribute responsibility.   Mostly due to these problems, I’ve formulated a certain view of human responsibility. I’ve spend a super goodly amount of time considering this view, … Continue reading

Posted in Consent, Human Beingness 101, inclusion, Psychology, Respect, Safety | 15 Comments

Polyamory Compatibility Questionnaire

  This set of questions was created by and for polyamorous people as a self-exploration and partnership compatibility guide.   The point of the questionnaire is to help polyamorous people to: establish potential compatibility with new partners narrow down and … Continue reading

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Head In The Clouds

  I notice that I’ve never done a film review on this blog before.   I guess that’s kind of strange because even though I dislike going to the cinema  (the volume is way too loud and the bright lights … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, BDSM dating, Consent, Dominance, Human Beingness 101, inclusion, Me Me Me Me Me, Psychology, Respect, Review, serf, submission, Validation | 1 Comment

Handy Tips For Dating Ads

  During some updates I’ve been working on, I wanted to link to a men’s guide to creating dating profiles more likely to attract women, and I noticed I didn’t have one! Oops. So here it is, and now I … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM dating, correspondence, Human Beingness 101, inclusion, Psychology, Respect | 3 Comments

Comment For Maymay

  I tried to post a comment on Maymay’s post from 24 June describing some aspects of the aftermath of a KinkForAll event, but his site wouldn’t allow it, returning this page:   and this message: Not Found Apologies, … Continue reading

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