Category Archives: fuckwitism

BDSM Dating – The Rant

  When re-creating my BDSM dating guide I was primarily aiming to help men who genuinely seek longer-term social partnerships with women.   And why did I create that guide?   Because my own most disagreeable dating experiences showed me … Continue reading

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Continuingness Update

  I published my Continuingness post on 11 May 2010 at 17:38  (09:38 Blogger time).   I heard nothing from the bloggist I was addressing.   In case the blogger hadn’t seen that I had honoured their request for feedback … Continue reading

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Super Deluxe Rant

  You know, I haven’t had a really good rantathon in quite awhile.   And guess what?   Here’s a brand spanking new one for your reading entertainment!   Spleen Productions Proudly Present: The  Super Deluxe Special Edition Rantfest with … Continue reading

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Still Confused?

  Here’s a summary and the latest updates.   21 August, 10:23 IST  –  A member of the Irish BDSM scene whom I have never met and never had any contact with before initiates contact with me by joining and … Continue reading

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More Parroting

  sparkle8faery apparently had a few things to say after my last post. For somebody who said they would have happily answered me if I’d emailed them with any questions, she seems quite reluctant herself to do so.   I … Continue reading

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‘Submission Is A Gift’ – The Rant

  I appreciate that anybody who suffers from self-esteem issues can choose something about themselves which is outside their jurisdiction  (such as sexual orientation or BDSM preferences)  and big it up all nice and juicy so they can feel better. … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, definition, Dominance, fuckwitism, One True Way, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, submission | 10 Comments

Oy Vey

  A comment arrived here this evening from somebody using a sock puppet name. I know, I know, such a new and creatively imaginative approach, I can hardly believe it myself.   We’ve never seen  that  here before. Well, actually, … Continue reading

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