Category Archives: Dominatrix

The Nightmare Journey From Hell

No matter how much a person denies their culpability, how long-term their involvement with kink, how prestigious their job is  (or how incessantly they brag about it),  no matter how womanly they are or how good their intentions  –  none of that can EVER exempt a person from being an abusive fuck. Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Dominatrix, fuckwit, fuckwittedness, Kink, Psychology, Safety, The Scene, This should've been a whole lot rantier | 17 Comments

Open Letter To “Cool & Groovy Toy Company Ltd” Regarding Their Bluethooth Vibrator “The Toy”

  To: Cool & Groovy Toy Company Ltd From: Lubyanka Subject: Open letter about anal placement of The Toy and other issues. Date: Monday, 17 September 2007 09:09:02 IST   Hello there, I very much like the idea of your … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, body worship, Consent, correspondence, Dildo, Dominance, Domination, Dominatrix, exclusion, FemDom, FemDomme, fuckwits, Hypocrism, inclusion, Mistress, noodging, nudging, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, Respect, Sex Toys, slave, sub, submission, submissive | 1 Comment

My Dominant Isn’t Dominating Me Enough, Waah!!!

I’ve been hearing and reading quite a bit lately from and about submissives who say they don’t feel their dominant is controlling them enough, or dominating them enough. This would seem to be an incredibly common complaint amongst submissives. This … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, Dominance, Domination, Dominatrix, FemDom, FemDomme, fuckwits, Hypocrism, Mistress, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Pot Calling The Kettle Black, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Rantfest, Respect, slave, sub, submission, submissive | 7 Comments

Therapeutic Flogging

or: Flogging With A Dead Horse   I just got back from a fabulously long, debauched weekend at Bicon. It was my first experience of this event, and I feel very confident it won’t be the last. There is so … Continue reading

Posted in Audio, BDSM, Consent, Dominance, Domination, Dominatrix, Eating, FemDom, FemDomme, Flogging, Food, Interesting musical instruments, leather, leg, Me Me Me Me Me, Music, Music making, noodge, noodging, nudge, nudging, Power Exchange, Psychology, Respect, Sex Toys, slave, Spokesmodel, sub, submission, submissive | 2 Comments

Hey, Who Stole My Consent, And What’s Up With That Anyway?

  This post is about consent, and about what I’m going to call “mainstream dominant woman fantasy material”.   But first……     Spokesmodel Digression Before I Even Get Started   I was going to point alluringly and scintillatingly to … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Consent, Domination, Dominatrix, Eating, Failed Career Attempts, FemDom, FemDomme, feminisation, Food, fuckwits, humpage, leather, Me Me Me Me Me, Mistress, Power Exchange, Psychology, Rant, Respect, slave, Spokesmodel, sub, submission, submissive | 16 Comments