After all the stuff I’ve read about orgasm denial and chastity, and after some discussion with kvetch, I’ve been considering a male chastity device for him.
In the early days of my relationship with kvetch, he disclosed to me that he had a problem with spending more time than he could spare on porn and masturbation. When I’m with him, this isn’t an issue. When I’m away, this remains a problem for him at times.
Normally, I define a “problem” as:
- problem – Something which interferes with usual function enough to impede or impair it.
In kvetch’s case, when I’m not around he finds that he spends more time than he can comfortably spare looking at porn and masturbating, sometimes for hours every evening. This can prevent him from completing other tasks.
Last time I saw him (oy vey, a post about that may possibly be in the works) he suggested to me that chastity might be helpful for this issue. We were in a shop buying me a new pain toy, and whilst there we had a look at a CB-3000 which was on display in a glass case. The case also had a stainless steel chastity device on display.
I didn’t really like the look of either of them, but the whole idea is rather hot. ;) I like the idea of holding the key to his genitals, a lot. :)
There are an unbelievable number of male chastity devices out there. The choice and variety is bewilderingly huge. That review site helped a great deal to clarify what it was I was actually shopping for.