Stuff About Lady Lubyanka

 
I was going to go into a long thingy about my Foodal Religion, but I think
it’s best if I stick to the basics on this one.   :)

I am a 43 year old human being.   I am also a:

• Musician
• Bisexual
• Polyamourous
• Dominant
• Woman

 
As it happens, my other diverse features include being:

• Jewish
• Audio Vibrationist
• Atheist
• Foodist
• Pastafarian

 
I’m a MBPDW JAVAFP-ist
 

(no matter how I tried, I just couldn’t make a catchy acronym out of
all that)

 
 

More Stuff

I am not a pro dom, I am a lifestyle dominant.

None of the Mistress Lubyanka websites are mine. I do not have a website.
 

(I mean, except for this one)

 
I do, however, have a cat, a Leatherman, and a vibrating toothbrush.   ;)
 
 
Being a dominant manifests itself in every aspect of my life, and everybody I know is aware of it.
 

(or at least, the ones whom I’ve told, which is mostly everybody)

(and the ones who have guessed)

(and their friends)

(and their hamsters)

 
I do enjoy experiencing the more memorable, sensual aspects of my life, which include being fooded a lot.   I do live near quite a few very enjoyable eateries, in which I stuff my face on a regular basis.
 

Yum.   :)

 
I have a serf who is very precious to me.   I refer to him in this blog as “kvetch“, because he kvetches the best of any non Jewish person I know.

I asked kvetch to create a blog to describe his experiences of what it’s like to be owned by me.   He did, but he almost never posts in it, unfortunately.

I’ve been working on that.

But anyhow, as a mark of support and solidarity, I thought it would be a good idea to start my own blog, so that he has less of an opportunity to kvetch about it, since I’m doing it too.   (this was before I knew he wasn’t going to hardly ever post in it)   Also, I thought it might be useful for him to read, and fun for me, as well as having yet another platform on which I can cathartically churn out what have turned out to be my frequent, large, incredibly verbose outpourings.
 
 

My Approachness To Stuff

I very much enjoy the cerebral aspects of BDSM.   I am less interested in focusing on specific kinky physical activities, and more interested in exploring and sharing the deeper motivations of any submissive in my charge.   My nickname for me represents the re-education and behaviour modification aspects of the Lubyanka Prison.
 

(more on this below)

 
As of October 2008, I have qualified as a certified and licensed NLP Practitioner.   Currently I am continuing my studies in that area, as well as a more in-depth look at Ericksonian hypnosis.   I have been successfully exploring hypnosis with kvetch for quite some time now.   It’s an experience he is growing to enjoy more and more.   Conducting hypnotic sessions are a very intense, yet tranquil experience for me.

Without the kind help and advice from Lady Julia and her yahoo group, I would have had a lot more trouble getting started with these topics.   I have her to thank for my being able to make so much progress in such a relatively short space of time.

Hypnosis and NLP have added a truly riveting twist to pre-existing facets of my personality.   I’m in an exciting stage of learning and personal development, which I am enjoying tremendously.   Whomever said “Life begins at 40″ really knew what the fuck they were talking about!   :)
 

As of 8 November, 2008, more people are reading this blog than I would have possibly imagined.   I had absolutely no idea that my neurotic ranting would be so popular.
 
Who knew.   :p

 
 

Nickname Explanatoriness

Sometimes, particularly uninformed individuals with tendencies to assume rather than ask, make erroneous and disrespectful assumptions about what they think I intend to convey by my choice of nickname.

I have an interest, as a dominant, in re-education and behaviour modification.   I mean this in the sense of re-educating a submissive in my charge about any unhealthful, self-defeating attitudes and behaviours which they may have, and behaviour modification in the sense of working out alternative attitudes and behaviours which benefit both of us.   The Lubyanka Prison is well known as a venue for human rights abuses, which were for a long time euphemistically referred to as “re-education” and “behaviour modification”.
 

Just to be absolutely clear  -  I unreservedly deplore the human rights abuses perpetrated by the KGB and others in and around the Lubyanka Prison.

 
Having said that, I have had very helpful, healthful, and positive results from consensually using the approaches I have adopted with the submissives in my care.   I had all of this in mind when I was choosing my nickname.   Although it wasn’t the only one I was considering, it was the one which stuck.   And now that I’m known by it, I’m loathe to change it.

So whether my use of the terms “re-education” or “behaviour modification” offends you, or whether my use of the name “Lubyanka” offends you, it works for me and my submissives, and I mean no disrespect or harm by using it.
 
 

Pictorial Extra Feature

This is me and a bit of kvetch.
 

 
 
 
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