Thank you for your kind remarks. :)

As for your efforts to self-milk, I recommend waiting for longer than 3 or 4 days. The more you do to create conditions in your body favourable to the prostate evacuating itself, the easier it will be to encourage your prostate to evacuate. Beginnings are usually the most difficult, so as you gain experience the milking should become easier. However, you will need to achieve that first emission before it will become easier.

With that in mind, I recommend you refrain from any kind of ejaculation for at least 2 weeks by distracting yourself with other activities, and then try again. According to kvetch, he experiences a kind of sour crampy ache where his belly curves into his groin before he has an emission. So I suggest waiting at least until you experience an ache like that, which should be an indication that your prostate is ready to evacuate.

As you already know, first efforts are usually the most difficult, but once you achieve that first emission you should gradually be able to increase the frequency of your emissions.

Good luck. :)

First of all, another helping of thanks and congratulations on such an amazing article!

I write to ask a few questions and seek a little advice. I have tried on many occasions to milk my own prostate using my fingers and have had little success. So far, i have been able to produce precum and a few drops of clear yet cloudy fluid. I typically wait 3 or 4 days after ejaculation to attempt it.

Unfortunately, I find the need to be aroused before the stroking is effective, defeating the object of the exercise. It’s also a very useful source of free lubricant..

Anyway, I was wondering if you had any tips, advice or comments on techniques, tools and such that may help the amateur self-milker?

Thanks in advance!

I’m not into a submissive life style, but I do enjoy being milked nonetheless. In fact, I find explosive orgasms to be rather anti-climatic, when the male body allows for endless pleasure when done correctly.

Your articles are informative and witty. Quite unlike the trash littering many other websites, including those trying to push ebook sales.

I think the only thing that would make your description even better is an anatomical 3d look at the structure of the prostate and how it surrounds/connects with the urethra, etc.
The traditional anatomical side view we so often see is a bit misleading when trying to explain to someone what to expect when they go exploring ;)

Thank you again for your contribution to the documentation of this very neglected, but intensely pleasurable, activity.

Once again thank you for all that you have done.
kendra

I don’t do “subtle dominance” or anything like that.

These things vary a lot within the same individual and between different individuals. The amount of semen, the flow, and how long it takes all depend on many factors. Most usually the flow is continuous but that can vary as well as the amount and the length of time spent. In the beginning I spent hours on it, so it could take hours or minutes, depending both on the milker and the milkee.