Rant: New Submissives

 

Beginners can get easily confused.

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Hello, my next post will be a rant.   You have been warned.   ;)

Ok, I think I’m  well  overdue for a rantfest, as I haven’t had one in awhile.   And a few recent things have conspired to encourage me to put together a post on my experiences of the various nauseating demerits of the typical newbie submissive.

Here’s a hyperlinked list of sections for easy-peasy navigation.

Navigatathon

  1. Random Contacts
  2. Demands
  3. I’m Not An Erotic Services Provider, I’m A Social Partner
  4. My Needs
  5. Manners
  6. Inexperience
  7. Unreciprocated Questions
  8. Self Absorbed Unhappiness
  9. The End

 

About Lady Lubyanka

I am a 45 year old musician, and also a multisexual, polyamourous, Jewish, socially dominant woman within my romantic BDSM relationships.
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9 Responses to Rant: New Submissives

  1. waiting4him says:

    Sometimes it goes the other way, as well…when i was looking for a new Dom…some of the emails i would get…OMG!
    Easier to weed out the wankers and wannabes…with opening lines of chat or emails asking me for my breast size, if i shave…ect. Acting as if they owned me before any casual get to know you conversation…unreal.
    i feel your pain…even from the other side of it…
    Nice to meet you!!!

    lc

  2. Lady Lubyanka says:

    Hello lc,

    It’s great to meet you too. :D

    It is SUCH a relief to know I’m not the only one who feels this way about male noobs! Definitely, a pain shared is a pain, well, if not halved, then certainly reduced. ;)

    I feel better now, thanks. :)

    Smiles and waves, from

    Lubyanka. :)

  3. 10pplay says:

    Been reading your pages for a while… keep on keeping on!

    Bernie

  4. Lady Lubyanka says:

    Thank you Bernie, nice to meet you. :)

    Regards,

    Lubyanka.

  5. Rainnie!! My banana pal!! :D

    How nice to see you here. :D Welcome to my selfabsorbtionfest. :p

    I spose I never gave you the link because it didn’t occur to me that lots of people would enjoy reading me going on about stuff I hate, lol.

    I’m working on a new post now, it’s ever so slightly more positive. Funnily, it’s also related to this one. ;) I’ll let you know when it’s up.

    See you on IRC,

    Lubyanka. ;)

    ps: whoops, forgot to fold and wave the banana….

    *folds and waves banana*

    *drops banana*

    *falls over it*

    *thuds*

    *gets up and, um, skulks out with dignified, um, thing*

  6. Rainnie says:

    *waves a strategically folded banana*
    I love it – and completely empathize!
    I am bookmarking this page, why haven’t
    you given me this link before?? Looking
    forward to reading more,

    see you on IRC

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  8. Josef Nothmann says:

    Some spot-on remarks here. Very instructive!

  9. NoobySub says:

    Thanks for the tips on things to avoid. Time to read the “dos” article now for further enlightenment

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